Communication Observation

Today I observed a man who was out sledding with his young son. The boy appeared to be about six or seven years old.

The boy was talking excitedly and constantly about his experiences on the sled. He was telling his father every detail of his ride down the hill, watching other people sled and talking about them, making noises when it looked like people might crash or fall, and laughing loudly. The man, on the other hand was pretty quiet and stoic, but smiling and nodding at his excited son.

The little boy was trying different ways of riding the sled down the hill. Sometimes sitting, sometimes lying down, sometimes backwards, sometimes alone, and sometimes with his father. He would tell his father, each time, how he wanted to go down the hill, and then his father would help him onto the sled and help him start going down the hill. When the father didn't sled with his son, he would walk down the hill in order to help the boy drag the sled back up.

Even though the father wasn't doing a lot of talking, I thought their communication was great. The boy clearly felt appreciated and heard and free to talk. The father clearly listened to his son because he helped him sled in the different ways that he described. The father never told the son how to do things or how not to do them. He simply listened and supported his son in his ideas.

I thought a lot about the idea of stepping back and listening to children without looking for particular responses or coaching them into the responses we want them to have. This father stepped back, listened and supported, and therefore, his son felt happy and confident and willing to take risks and try new things. Also the fathers body language and facial expression showed that he was enjoying listening to what his son had to say.

Family Childcare Home

My actual home childcare center dream would be to have a co-op program on a large piece of land that would focus on nature education. I would choose to create a co-op program because it would give families the opportunity to volunteer time in lieu of money so that they could receive quality care at a discounted rate, as well as be a part of the culture of the program.

My vision is to have an outdoor classroom with a community garden, farm animals, a pond and a forested area. One thing that all cultures in the world do share is a connection to the earth for food, water, air and materials. Children need to spend time in nature in order to feel that connection for themselves. Once they feel that connection,they can really feel that they are part of the global community and they can better appreciate the contributions and connections of other cultures.

Another great way of sharing cultures is sharing foods. One way I would like to integrate this into my program would be to grow the foods from the families cultures that can be grown here. I would also ask the parents to share recipes or foods from their culture with the entire group. I would like to have family pot lucks where everyone would share family foods with each other.

Language and artifacts would also be a very important part of my program. I would ask families to share items from their home cultures and to teach us some of their home language and these things would be integrated into our program.

Of course, I would also include multicultural costumes, play foods, instruments, dolls, toy houses and material.